To Spank Or Not To Spank

That is the question. Do you or do you not infuse spanking as a form of pleasure with your significant other? Inquiring minds want to know! I, myself, have found no pleasure whatsoever in spanking or being spanked. Been there, done that and even when my significant other has wanted and tried to introduce, this quite often I might add, into our sex life, I just have not and probably never will find this particular activity pleasurable. It HURTS and in no way brought about an orgasmic reaction from me. Does this make me out to be insensitive to my s/o's needs? I think not! It's just not something I prefer when the result brings upon pain for me. I'm a wimp when it comes to pain of any sort and sexual intercourse, intimacy and foreplay should be about pleasure. This does not mean I don't like to read about the enjoyment others have of this particular technique or should I say activity when it's instrumental in bringing pleasure to the partner in question. It's just not something I have found pleasurable no matter how often I've tried accepting it into my kind of bedroom play. It resorts to bringing about nothing but anger and reminders of the few childhood memories I have when this was used as a tool for punishment! But don't let that stop you. I want to know your thoughts on this and what you find pleasurable about it. Come on now, don't be shy! You will not be judged as being a pervert or kinky. I'm just inquisitive about how this makes you feel and why. Different strokes for different folks and all!